When growing old....

  If you want to grow old without becoming helpless or a burden to anyone, understand these things from today itself.

⚖️ 1. Don’t carry other people’s problems on your shoulders:

Don’t get yourself burned by trying to solve family problems of relatives or neighbors. Speak only when it is truly necessary to intervene, and learn to remain silent at other times. There is no comfort greater than silence.

💊 2. Don’t be stingy when it comes to your health:

Don’t hesitate to spend on good meals, necessary vitamins, or comfortable clothing. There is no point in saving money all your life and then handing it over to doctors when you end up sick in bed.

📱 3. Don’t be afraid of new technology:

Break free from the mindset of “I don’t understand these things.” Learn to use a  learn to make a video call. Staying connected with the world will greatly help reduce loneliness.

🤝 4. Don’t let go of old friends:

No matter how many children or grandchildren you have, the joy of talking to a friend of your own age is different. Make time to meet an old friend at least once a month, share old jokes, and laugh together.

🧹 5. Get rid of unnecessary belongings:

Clear out old boxes, old clothes, and broken items you’ve piled up for years. When your surroundings feel lighter, your mind will feel freer too. Learning to “let go” starts here.

🙏 6. Turn towards religion and spirituality:

When you feel tired from running in this fast-paced world, engage in religious practices to calm your mind. They help remove the fear of death and give great inner strength.

🏠 7. Think carefully before transferring your property:

Even though you love your children, don’t hand over all your property too early. The day you give away everything, you might not even have a place in your own home. Keep what’s yours in your own hands as long as you live, so you can live with dignity without being a burden to anyone.

🎨 8. Restart a forgotten hobby:

Read a book, grow a plant, or listen to music. Rediscover those small joys you missed amidst life’s busyness. A happy mind reduces illness.

💰 9. Protect the money you have:

Don’t rush to give away the money you saved with hardship. If you spend it on your children’s businesses, you may later have to ask them even for money to buy medicine. If you want to depend on no one, keep your savings with you.

🚪 10. Don’t go and live in your children’s homes:

Don’t interfere in their personal lives just because they are “your children.” If you stay with them too much, your love may start to feel like a burden to them. Living independently in your own space is better for your dignity.

⛰️ 11. Don’t wait for your children to travel with you:

Don’t keep waiting, thinking “my children will take me someday.” By the time they are free, you may not be able to walk anymore. While you still have strength, go where you like, even if it’s alone.

🍲 12. Eat what you crave today:

If you or your spouse crave a certain food, buy it and eat it today. There’s no use crying beside a coffin with a plate of food. While you are alive, eat and drink happily.

🗣️ 13. Don’t regret the past:

Don’t keep thinking, “If only I had done this then, things would be different today.” What happened has happened. Live today. Being stuck in the past destroys present happiness.

💖 14. Love yourself:

In the end, only you remain. Don’t expect praise for the sacrifices you made for others. Whether anyone cares or not, care for yourself. There is nothing more valuable than living with self-respect.

🌘 15. Learn to be alone:

Don’t place too many expectations on others to look after you. When those expectations aren’t met, the pain is greater. When darkness falls, even your shadow leaves you. So learn to create your own happiness and be comfortable being alone.